 From a morning stroll on the beach in Galveston, Texas. Photo credit: G. Todd Williams. For when you did awesome things that we did not expect, you came down, and the mountains trembled before you. Since ancient times no one has heard, no ear has perceived, no eye has seen any God besides you, who acts on behalf of those who wait for him. ~ Isaiah 64:3,4 (NIV) As time goes on, I’ve realized that aging uncovers a lot about who we truly are. One of the most valuable things I’ve learned in my lifetime is that my greatest gifts are my joy for living, my quest for inner peace, and my ability to offer silence and solitude, all while embracing a sense of well-being when these elements come together.
When I reflect and ask, “Who helps me the most?” My answer is, “The person who is willing to share their life with me.” Jesus came to walk alongside us, to hear our stories, and help us realize that we are not aimlessly wandering but moving toward peace and joy. We are never alone on this journey. The God of love, who gave us life, sent someone to be with us always, ensuring we never feel lost and constantly reminding us that God is with us through everything. The challenge lies in letting God be who God wants to be. Sometimes we cling to our loneliness, blocking God from touching us in our deepest pain. We often hide from God in our guilt, shame, and confusion, seeking isolation even as God tirelessly pursues us. These moments leave us feeling nothing but loneliness. During Easter, we are invited to let the resurrected Christ into every moment, even the difficult ones where we fear letting Him in. Jesus calls us to companionship, surrounding us with a love beyond what our hearts and minds can comprehend. Stay in God's grip! Todd Rev. G. Todd Williams, MDiv. (c) 2025
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 Photo Credit: G. Todd Williams, Galveston Beach, Galveston, TX. When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my lambs.” A second time he said to him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Tend my sheep.” He said to him the third time, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Peter felt hurt because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” And he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep. Very truly, I tell you, when you were younger, you used to fasten your own belt and to go wherever you wished. But when you grow old, you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will fasten a belt around you and take you where you do not wish to go.” (He said this to indicate the kind of death by which he would glorify God.) After this he said to him, “Follow me.” ~ John 21:15 - 19 Having been blessed to know most of my great grandparents and grandparents, I have to say, I learned a lot about living, growing old, and dying.
Our ability to grow old gracefully involves many factors. Our health of course, but also, the circumstances that meet us each day. While physical abilities are something we all worry about, the mind is also something we can focus on. Questions like, "Will I remember, or know others?" "Will I still be independent enough to take care of myself?" are just a few of many. Jesus first begins asking Simon Peter a basic question, "Do you love me?" While he declares his love for Jesus, Jesus then tells him things that he must do. Feed and to tend his sheep. He then tells him to "follow me." But first, he describes something that most of us would describe as aging. I think we all realize that when we were younger, we were capable of many things. Tying our own shoes. Fastening our own belt. Deciding what our own choices were for the day and striking out on our own. I watched my grandparents as they aged, these things become more difficult. It's not just tying your shoes as fingers find their way to fashion shoestrings, it's also about bending over to tie them. Deciding what to wear, and will it be appropriate for the weather? Things that once never entered our mind, consciously, now possess time in our day. Jesus seems to touch on this very process, sharing that at some point, someone else will fasten our belt and will lead us. This was true in the case of nearly all my grandparents. While this is something to consider, Jesus is more concerned about something else. BUT FOR NOW... will you follow me? No matter what our circumstances, ultimately our decision to follow Christ is ours to make. What does this mean? Well, it means something different for every single one of us! While scripture shares how this worked for Jesus and his Disciples years ago, and the communities they resided in, it serves to help us see what some of these relationships looked like. When I was serving as a hospice chaplain, I always found it interesting that when I would introduce myself to a patient, the patient would often begin to tell me about the church, or faith, that he or she belonged. Whether Jesus was part of the faith tradition, or no tradition at all. Whether the person prayed, or experienced faith. Often these all seemed to encompass some kind of Biblical understanding. Many times, I would listen to a list of things that described their faith, but ultimately, if the person was Christian, I would respond, "So you follow Christ." It is not always about what you do, how you worship, or for that matter, what others believe. It is the words that Jesus shared with Simon Peter that day, "If you love me, follow me." While there are many things within my faith tradition that I cherish, as these are the things I do to practice my faith, ultimately my life is about a choice to follow Jesus. That is the one choice all of us must make, and how that looks, will be different for each of us! Stay in God's grip! G. Todd Williams (c) 2025 |
AuthorRev. G. Todd Williams is the author of the book, "Remember Me When..." (Chalice Press, August 2021) and is a former hospice chaplain. Archives
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