Stay in God's Grip!
  • Home
  • Todd's Blog
  • Remember Me When
  • Contact

 While in God's Grip!

Into the palms of God...

5/28/2019

1 Comment

 
Picture
Our beautiful "Nancy Tree," surrounded by marigolds in our back yard.
For I am the LORD your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.
~ Isaiah 41:13
Each day I end my blog with the words, "Stay in God's grip."  Today I had the honor of being with a woman as she surrendered herself into the hands of God.

For the last several months she has defied all understanding of the human condition, and has taught all of us who have spent time with her what shear determination looks like.  In our time together I have learned about so many things.  I believe if this woman was part of an ancient tribe, she would have been revered as a "Great Elder."  

I loved the stories that she would share.  Her love for education pushed her to create a school that women would actually plan the birth of their next child around to fit the opening that might be available.  She shared the story of finding a literal "camel" for a church event, and her daughter laughed until tears rolled down her face telling about a time that they loaded a grown sheep into the back of the family car for another event.

One day we were talking about her resourcefulness, and that she was the original "Google," before it existed!

She would share pictures of gardens she planted, and even went so far as to suggest a tree for my yard.  After ordering it by way of a nursery based out of Delaware, that actually shipped the tree from Florida, the "Fireman's Cap" or as our family lovingly refers to as the "Nancy Tree," named for her, found it's way into our back yard.  When I first planted it, every leaf dropped, and I thought that it had died.  She assured me that it was only in shock, and that it would recover.  She was right.  It began shooting out new leaves, and branches, along with THORNS!  When I shared, "You didn't tell me about the thorns," she responded, "Well, you didn't ask me if it had thorns."

Another moment where laughter erupted.

Our conversations then turned to her funeral, which included directions and suggestions on songs, scripture and even the need for yellow balloons.  I laughed and said, "I suppose that I should wear a yellow bow tie as well?"

To which she responded, "That would be a nice touch."

One of the hardest things about being a hospice chaplain is knowing that the time that you have with someone is limited.  There are those people that you meet that will forever change your life.  The hospice relationship is usually six months or less with that patient, but for every encounter with her, I learned more about myself that will last a lifetime.

Living with a terminal illness can be a reminder that time is limited, and for some it involves "bucket lists," and a series of "lasts," but what I have discovered it can still be filled with hope, prayers, and possibilities.  Miracles and healing exists, even in the final moments of life.  Without going into a long story, she touched a very wounded part of me, and at the time of her death, I realized that she had brought it out of me, into the light, and that it no longer had power over me.

It's on days like these when I have been present for a person's last breath, I am reminded of the man who hung next to Christ who was promised, "Today you will be with me in paradise."  While there were no words shared today by her, her final look to see that she was not alone, was all that she needed to trust that the next moment would be welcomed by the outstretched hands of God.  

Once again I am reminded to have faith in the things that I have not seen, but in what I have watched others experience.  

Even Christ called out to God, "Into thy hands I commit my spirit," just prior to his final moments.  Once again reminding each of us of the importance of the hands of God, and that we are to trust that we will always be in God's grip!

G. Todd Williams (c) 2019
1 Comment
Donna Parrish
5/30/2019 06:54:01 pm

Thanks you so much for your insight through this process from you and the family. I appreciate you for all you do for these people and their families during the last days and receiving blessings in return. Not everyone can full your shoes!

Reply



Leave a Reply.

    Author

    Rev. G. Todd Williams lives in the Houston metro area and is a Hospice Chaplain at Essential Hospice, Webster, Texas, and is an ordained Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) pastor.

    He serves as the Stated Supply to Westminster Presbyterian Church, Galveston, Texas.

    His new book, "Remember Me When..." is available through Chalice Press.

    Archives

    August 2022
    June 2022
    May 2022
    March 2022
    February 2022
    December 2021
    July 2021
    May 2021
    April 2021
    March 2021
    February 2021
    January 2021
    December 2020
    November 2020
    October 2020
    September 2020
    August 2020
    July 2020
    June 2020
    May 2020
    April 2020
    March 2020
    February 2020
    January 2020
    December 2019
    November 2019
    October 2019
    September 2019
    August 2019
    July 2019
    June 2019
    May 2019
    April 2019
    March 2019
    February 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    August 2018
    July 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017

    RSS Feed

  • Home
  • Todd's Blog
  • Remember Me When
  • Contact